Have you noticed that more and more young people suffer of loneliness and some of them get depressed because they can’t get into a relationship? Their appetite for life pales and they cannot find joy in life anymore because they think they can’t find someone to be in a relationship with. Sometimes this happens because they have crushes on wrong people or they just wait to be found and loved.
I’m saying it’s a circle because the bad moment it’s interiorized so much they think that they are the problem. In addition, because of this they are isolating themselves thinking that all hope is lost and that they’ll be alone forever. Because of this isolation, they won’t be able to meet new people from whom one might be the right one.
Yes, I know it hurts. Yes, I know it all might seem hopeless. Yes, I know you’re afraid of trying because you might get hurt again, but you know what? If you try, you’ll eventually find someone right for you, but if you don’t try, you won’t find that person. Imagine that your perfect half is somewhere out there isolating himself/herself from other people. If you do the same, how do you think you’re going to find eachother?
Get out there, get hurt, live. The more suffering you’ll have, the more happy you’ll be when the right one shows up because there is a balance in everything.