Question of the Day – No. 150 If you could start life all over again, would you do anything different? Look forward to your answers! Max Share this:TwitterFacebookTumblrMoreLinkedInRedditPinterestPocketTelegramWhatsAppSkypeEmailLike this:Like Loading... 55 thoughts on “Question of the Day – No. 150” Add yours The only thing I would do differently is not say hurtful things I’ve said in anger. This is in my more recent life. I can’t take them back. Just apologize and not do it again. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply Agreed! Nice answer! 🙂 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Yes and no. If I changed a few things I think my life would end up where I am. I wouldn’t do anything to jeopardize not meeting my husband for sure. So yes I’d change little things like do better in school or art. Make more friends, be less paranoid. LikeLiked by 4 people Reply Thanks for sharing! It’s never too late to go after some of those things still 😊 LikeLiked by 3 people Reply Agreed. I’m working on some of them now LikeLike That’s almost exactly my reply! LikeLiked by 3 people Reply I would finish high school and go straight to college. Instead, I gave birth and got married at 17. I endured a terribly hurtful (emotionally not physically) marriage for 20 years “for the kids.” Now that I’m a a remarried 43 year old prosecuting attorney, I know what happiness feels like. I also have a new toddler and feel that she benefits from something my grown (but very functional) children did not – patient parents. It seems that (at least for me) with age, wisdom and patience come. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply Glad you managed a turn around that brought you happiness! 😊 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply I would start business instead of studying in University. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Nice! What business? 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Any 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person With that energy and will you are wasting for years in University you can cope with any biz. I envy people who started something during their education (or instead). LikeLiked by 3 people I wouldn’t necessarily say that energy is wasted. To me university isn’t primarily about writing good grades, but more a out meeting new people and starting some sort of an initiative or business… But you can also start a biz after as well. LikeLiked by 2 people LikeLiked by 2 people There’s lots of things I wish I hadn’t done (marriage, for one), but if I hadn’t done them, I might have done something worse. So, unless I knew for certain there would be a better outcome, no, I wouldn’t do anything differently. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply Nice! Thanks for sharing!:-) LikeLiked by 2 people Reply No… I used to think I would but honestly I only have 1 real regret that I find difficult to live with but even that taught me something, love people and express yourself to them while they are still here LikeLiked by 3 people Reply This is so true! THanks for sharing 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Not really, only maybe get more experience with graphic design (like continued with school maybe), but really, no. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply I don’t know – some of that depends on if I took the knowledge I have now with me? Would I be able to see the consequences of the differences I might choose? I’m thinking – it would have been nice to have been properly diagnosed and treated for my bi-polar etc… But that’s pretty much it. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Thanks for sharing! 🙂 That’s a really valid question I always ask myself as well. Especially when it comes to making big decisions. If you’ve never been probably diagnosed with bi-polar, how do you know you are bi-polar? 🙂 LikeLike Reply I wouldn’t change anything till the year 2007. After that year i’d change mostly… Just about everything LikeLiked by 3 people Reply What happened if I may ask? 🙂 LikeLike Reply In 2007 my cat was born and made my life happy and is still helping with my anxiety attacks. My mental illness was perceived as shyness (social anxiety) therefore untreated because Frko is such an awesome cat he helped awfully a lot but then depression switched into a higher gear… So that was noticed in 2017 LikeLike I think I would learn to genuinely care for my wellbeing at a much younger age. It’s astounding how blatantly obvious life can be when you understand the concept of acceptance and find contentment in the things you can’t control. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply So true! Acceptance is a pretty big thing that can bring us most of the peace we need 🙂 Thanks for sharing! LikeLike Reply Assuming you go back to the person you were and can’t bring anything you’ve learned along the way… No. I would change zero. Every breath, every word, every decision has given me my greatest blessings, my children and grandchildren. LikeLiked by 5 people Reply That’s how its meant to be! Keep it up, Thanks for sharing! 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I would not change anything at all. I have read some who have the same out look as mine. We turned out alright with the life lessons we learned. Some good some bad. I am happy where I am at in life being a published author and a blogger. LikeLiked by 4 people Reply I can’t say I would change anything… Those “mistakes” or blips I made were all apart of my journey and taught me valuable lessons… LikeLiked by 3 people Reply That’s a great way of looking at it! 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Not mess up my credit in College. Not go to grad school and take out more loans. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply hi LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Hi! How are you? 😀 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I would leave everything the same. Although I would have liked to have known I have BPD and learned DBT sooner, my children and I would be different if I had. I am happy with the way my children and grandchildren turned out and I’m happy they are in my life. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply This tougher to answer than I expected. I think that every path I took so far in life brought me to the place I am now and I love where I am because I finally realized that I’m in control of my life. So I would say no, I wouldn’t change anything. It took me a lot to understand and accept this! If you asked me a while back, probably my answer would have been different. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply There was a story “Hot Stone”. Who heaves the stone could return youth. One boy helped an old man, but old man refused youth, he said he would do all the same things. That’s the story. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply True story! 🙂 LikeLike Glad to hear you see things different now! 🙂 Yes, it does take some time to realize some important things in life. Same here. 😀 Thanks for sharing! 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply > meeting new people Yes, it’s a great wonder when you can make friends and keep them. Some of my classmates have Oscar, some buy movies in Cannes, some are Risk and Top Executives in big companies. I wish I would be able to make and keep friendship. It’s a value. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Your network is your net-worth as they say 😉 It’s never too late to get out there and befriending people 🙂 Thanks for sharing! LikeLike Reply I always was shy of such things. If I have a little in common with somebody I have a little to talk about and if I have mutual interests I becoming shy. I saw many interesting people but always was too shy to keep friendship with them. And classmates…. one: “I like Panama” (but I don’t like Panama), other: “I like Mercedes-Benz”, (and I don’t), one has adopted children and I don’t know what is a right thing to talk to people with adopted. I am not sure I am able to change it inside me for the present. LikeLiked by 1 person I love movie “My best Friend” with Dany Boone You know there is homo-phobia in the World and probably there is “friend-o-phobia”, phobia of getting friends. I often hear about “atomization”. I think it’s a global problem. People becoming nicer but there are few friends in the World. I advice you to watch the movie. It’s a comedy so it’s a pleasure. LikeLike I would invest more. Other than that nothing much. I like the lessons I’ve learned in life. It’s made me who I am, not a bad deal LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I would diminish a number of girls and probably tried to learn some languages. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply It’s never too late to learn a new language. My mum’s 46 and currently learning Spanish with an online teacher 🙂 Thanks for sharing! LikeLike Reply Everything. LikeLike Reply Oh my word – every single thing starting with different parents LOL LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I wouldn’t change anything because our experiences form our character. I’ve learned from my mistakes and hopefully I can enlighten others as I continue to walk my journey. Believe me I’ve made a ton of mistakes and probably will make more but each experience is a chance to change. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Probably not… 🙂 “Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come”. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Nope! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I’d be a lesbian. Women are so much nicer than men. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Hahaha! I do admit, men can be difficult! But so can woman!! 😛 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply No as I wouldn’t be the person I am today. I’ve been through so much in my life and it’s made me a very unjudgmental person and I wouldn’t change that for the world even though I am a right state at times LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Yes. I’d try to be more relaxed and enjoy the good times. I probably wouldn’t change the major life decisions because I simply wouldn’t be me then, but small things like being more assertive and confident about being myself, I’d do. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here... Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email (required) (Address never made public) Name (required) Website You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Google account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Twitter account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Facebook account. ( Log Out / Change ) Cancel Connecting to %s Notify me of new comments via email. 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