Question of the Day – No. 169 What changes do you need to make in the mindset you now have? Share this:TwitterFacebookTumblrMoreLinkedInRedditPinterestPocketTelegramWhatsAppSkypeEmailLike this:Like Loading... 55 thoughts on “Question of the Day – No. 169” Add yours I need to forget about it. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply Forget about it? LikeLike Reply To be more specific, I need to go read more about processing emotional pain. LikeLiked by 1 person I understand now. What causes that pain? LikeLike Regret, fear of rejection, fear of messing things up, … LikeLiked by 1 person It’ll pass… LikeLiked by 4 people Reply It will 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Thank you… I really hope so 🙏🏻😌 LikeLiked by 1 person I need to learn to accept things – especially short-term pain, aloneness, emptiness, etc. – and stop trying to block those things out with distractions that are only going to make things worse in the long-term. LikeLiked by 6 people Reply I agree 100% LikeLiked by 4 people Reply Long term wellbeing is more important than short term distractions. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Staying focus on what really matters. LikeLiked by 5 people Reply I love this! Yes, we need yo do that on a daily basis. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I need to stop procrastinating so much and plan things out. LikeLiked by 7 people Reply Word!!! Me too; and to execute that plan. LikeLiked by 4 people Reply Yes!!! We all should try to do so for the new year! LikeLiked by 1 person What do you need to change in order to do that? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I need to begin planning ahead for myself. I need to create a schedule that works for me but still allows some time to just be me. LikeLiked by 1 person Do it! 😀 LikeLike I need to make a plan. I think I just rush to begin instead of taking my time to devise a proper plan then motivate myself to execute. LikeLiked by 1 person I need to learn to accept the things I cannot change or control. LikeLiked by 5 people Reply That would be great even though it’s hard. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I need to let go of my childhood memories that cause me pain and heartache. I have held them so long as a means of self protection and/or preservation, it’s made me fear potential success. LikeLiked by 4 people Reply Since they’re not helpful, you need to let them go… LikeLike Reply Dpn’t have a mindset… every day I am dealt a new hand in the game of life and I play the cards I get… 🙂 “There are things that we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, people we can’t live without but have to let go.” ― Nancy Stephan LikeLiked by 3 people Reply Could not having a mindset be a mindset itself? 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply A mindset is an established ideology or attitude (in some circles it is also known as being closed minded in some cases, extremism in some cases)…, I don’t have that… 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person pick up my camera more often, the more I shoot, the happier I am. LikeLiked by 4 people Reply One “extra” picture per day can help with this 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Oh well where do I begin? To just sit and write and create and stop being so lazy and procrastinating. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply That’s where you begin 😀 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply The less we have ‘set’ in our minds the happier we will be. Treat each day for what it is. A new one, and realize the ‘present’ is exactly what it’s called. A gift, or present. xxx LikeLiked by 2 people Reply It would be so awesome if we can do this! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Practice and patience my friend. xx LikeLiked by 1 person I would like to change what I think happens after death. However, I think that I would only be deluding myself. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply What do you think it happens after death? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Our energy, what we consider our souls, returns to the Source and merges back into it. LikeLiked by 1 person If I knew that, I’d need less therapy. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply At least, you know the outcome that bothers you and based on that, you went to therapy. I hope the sessions help you 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Intensely. It comes down to my values and those of many of my relative are different. I’m following my heart, not theirs. LikeLiked by 1 person To quote Mark Twain, “Be careless in your dress if you must, but keep a tidy soul.” LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Totally agree! LikeLike Reply Accepting criticism without blowing up or thinking I failed. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I think that differentiating between behavior and identity can help you with this. I actually made a post about this idea. You can read it and let me know your thoughts about the idea -> https://pointlessoverthinking.wordpress.com/2018/08/14/identity-versus-behavior/ LikeLiked by 1 person Reply You’re right. One bad behavior doesn’t define a person. I have to condition myself to let that part of me go. It’s just Im an artist and im sensitive about my sh*t…I’ll give you an example: I wrote a scene that plays out a “cat & mouse” scenario between two characters;within this scene is the crux of the obsession that’s built with this character over the other. My hubbs has been my beta reader and he gave his opinion on it reluctantly and because I couldn’t explain to him that I was focusing on the psychology of the scene not only the action within it, in my mind I heard I failed and I told him not to read anymore. But I want his help. I always want others help, I just hear failure when they give their opinion. LikeLiked by 1 person I need to learn the art of not over thinking!! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Yes, we need to learn to control our mind. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply To remember to breathe and stay present. To not be so scared all the time. I fear the unknown and change but then again everything is changing. I want to embrace change LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Embracing change can be one of the toughest things out there. But in the end, it can be very rewarding. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Not to over think ever. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply What do you overthink the most? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I over think about mostly everything and that’s my only problem. LikeLiked by 1 person It paralyzes you from going forward due to the huge amount of anxiety? Or does it manifest in other ways? LikeLiked by 1 person You just got it, it just paralyzes me from going forward. LikeLiked by 1 person Is it because of fear of failure or because there are too many options and you don’t know which one to pick? LikeLike Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here... Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email (required) (Address never made public) Name (required) Website You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. 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