Question of the Day – No. 203 Can you look at yourself and smile about what you see? Why or why not? proposed by CP Share this:TwitterFacebookTumblrMoreLinkedInRedditGooglePinterestPocketTelegramWhatsAppSkypeEmailLike this:Like Loading... 55 thoughts on “Question of the Day – No. 203” Add yours Yes! I like myself 🙂 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Awesome! 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply OMG, yes! I’m happy. I may not have the discipline to live my life as a full-time writer, but I am happy with my efforts. What’s more, I’m happy with the life that I’ve built for myself. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply That is so great! If you go forward, you will someday live your life as a fill-time writer if that’s what you truly want! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Yes, I’m quite happy with myself!😙 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply What do you love the most about yourself? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply My thought process, how I’ve embraced my personality, my drive to better my family’s life, my drive to focus on succeeding my goals. LikeLiked by 2 people Most definitely ! As someone that suffers from Acne I have come a long way from not wanting to leave my house without makeup. I’ve managed to be comfortable in my own skin and realise Acne is normal. I’ve also seen conditions worse than mine so I now wear my bare, scarred and pimple filled face with no shame lol LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Yes, that’s normal! I’m so happy you managed to to get comfortable in your own skin and accept it as it is! LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Yes definitely because I Love myself and approve of myself. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply That’s awesome! And I’m sure that you also accept yourself! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Absolutely yes… 🙂 why you ask?.. because I believe..“The only thing that stands between you and your dream is the will to try and the belief that it is actually possible.” – Joel Brown LikeLiked by 2 people Reply That’s great indeed! 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply have nice one..Wanna talk to you.Si If you LikeLiked by 1 person Reply If you want to talk to me, send me an email 🙂 LikeLike Reply Your Email Id? LikeLike seeing a smiley face now in the mirror 🙂 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply I hope you always saw it, not only now 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply No. I’m a mess. Depression won’t let me out of its claws and social anxiety is holding on and it doesn’t look like it will ever loosen its grip on me… 🙃 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Where is that depression coming from? LikeLiked by 2 people Reply I don’t know. Can’t figure it out. It’s been there for 10+ years. I’m settling for chemical imbalance in my brain, for now. LikeLiked by 2 people If you look back before this, can you pinpoint some time frame when it all started? LikeLiked by 1 person School. 8th grade i think… Buy nothing special happened… The braking point was in my last high school year when i just couldn’t deal with all the nonsense we were graded on… I guess the school system broke me LikeLiked by 1 person I think that a deeper discussion is needed. The school system can do harm, but not in like that… LikeLiked by 1 person Agreed LikeLiked by 1 person Yes, I see a strong, resilient beautiful queen with some faulty ways but a good ass heart 😁 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply We all have some faulty ways 😀 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Wisdom has given me the ability to say yes, but that answer was no for many decades. I like the person on the inside a lot more than I once did. I could lose 10-20 lbs but I’m happy with what I see on the outside. I stopped letting others define me and reduced the time beating myself up about things. I’m proud of my professional and more importantly personal accomplishments and relationships. Live, Love, Laugh. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Was that “no” related to other people’s opinions about yourself and once you stopped letting those opinions define you, the smile appeared? LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Partially to others opinions but also my own doubts and lack of confidence. LikeLiked by 1 person I’m working hard to make this happen soon. I’m usually way more critical than I should be. The answer would be sometimes I can smile because I’m healthy and sometimes no because the demons are present and strong. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply What is your biggest baddest demon? LikeLiked by 2 people Reply The voice that says, “You’re not good enough.” LikeLiked by 2 people That’s a tough demon to argue with… LikeLike Most of the time. I’m coming from a past of depression and low self-esteem, and there are definitely habitual ways of relating to myself that are still lingering on. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply If you manage to overcome that and still get to the point where you can smile most of the time when you look in the mirror, it’s a very great sign that you’ll get better and better at it! LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Yes, because at one point i was not this far. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply That is a great perspective! Awesome! 😀 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I’m learning to. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply How does it go so far? LikeLike Reply Some days are easier than others. Some days, I can say “yup, you’re awesome, brokenness, flaws and all”. Other days, I criticize and question everything about myself. LikeLiked by 1 person I think it’s somehow a good approach because that’s how we realize we’re humans and we can see what we love about ourselves and what we don’t. However, if we love and criticize the same thing, we need to have a deeper look there. LikeLiked by 1 person The days that I’m questioning and criticizing everything, are usually the days that I’ve let my depression get the better of me. LikeLiked by 1 person There are days that I can smile, and others that I have to fake it. But often times, even when I start the day with a fake smile, it would end with a real one. I just have to try harder to find something to make me happy from the inside, rather than waiting for the things around me to be better than what they really are. It can be difficult especially with anxiety problems, but it is these small daily victories that prove that I am a survivor. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Yes, that would be the best approach! Maybe you can find some things in your life for which you’re truly grateful for? Write them down and read them the first thing in the morning ans see how it goes for you 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Yes, I am able to smile at myself; because, I am a better version of me than I ever was. And, I have confidence that I am able to continue improving mentally, emotionally, and physically. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Awesome! And it’s also awesome that you help us get to our better versions of ourselves as well! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Wow! Thank you for saying that. I never knew that I was doing that. 💖 LikeLiked by 1 person Only in a sarcastic “what the hell are you doing with your life?” kind of way.. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Well, you’re creating content with your life which can help other people have better lives! Isn’t that a hell-of-a-thing to do? LikeLike Reply Yeah. I still have a long way to go but I think I’m a better person than I was last year so that makes me smile. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Awesome! What determined you to change? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I felt like I had to. I was becoming something that I did not like. LikeLiked by 1 person Yes. It took a long time to get here but yes. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply That’s great! 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