Question of the Day – No. 273

How do you manage other people’s anger oriented towards you?

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  1. I pay them no mind….unless they come for me directly. Most people who are truly angry, who really feel the need to let you know about yourself or what irks them about, will express it. Otherwise, they’re cowards. So, as the saying goes “don’t come for me, unless I send for you” – Kenya Moore Housewives of ATL. Or in other words, don’t start none, won’t be none.😙

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  2. Honestly, it depends on so many factors. Person A became angry with me for something outside my control – I’ve blocked them, after feeling triggered. Person B is pissed of because of something I did that I feel was the correct course of action – I don’t interact with them, but don’t feel threatened. Mostly, I just keep away from people. I’m not here to eat their stress and anger.

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  3. 1. Why are they angry at me? is it direct or a projection of anger? Is it jealously disguised or just a bad mood? Pick apart the reasons why and see if valid or no.

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  4. Generally speaking when someone is angry with me, it is more than likely for a legitimate reason. So I try my best to let them have their moment, it doesn’t always work that way, but I try to talk through it as comply as possible. We all can be so angry inside and sometimes you just need to let it go.

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      1. I have learned it is best to allow people time to process. I no longer take responsibility for someone else’s feelings or behavior, unless I know I am at fault. If I am at fault, I make amends. If I do not “believe” I am at fault, I do nothing. Only my EGO would be responding and I need to keep my EGO in check.

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      1. No, emotions are overrated (anger is one) and people are angry in general because they can and want. Most times they are angry for things they cannot control, so reacting with anger towards anything or anybody gives them a false sense of control.

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  5. I will ask them why they are angry at me.

    If I did make a mistake to make them mad, I will admit to it and ask for forgiveness.

    If I didn’t commit their accusations, I will tell them that I did not do the things they think I did.

    If they don’t believe me, I leave. I don’t deserve to have a negative person in my life.

    If they won’t leave me alone, I’ll get the authorities involved.

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