Question of the Day – No. 290 If you could magically transform your life overnight, what would you like to be different? Share this:TwitterFacebookTumblrMoreLinkedInRedditPinterestPocketTelegramWhatsAppSkypeEmailLike this:Like Loading... 83 thoughts on “Question of the Day – No. 290” Add yours LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Make the world a better place 🙂 LikeLike Reply Better finances! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply What would you do if you had better finances? LikeLike Reply Become debt free and use more of my resources to help others. LikeLiked by 1 person Different career choice. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply What’s the career you wish you had? LikeLike Reply If I could do it all over I would be a doctor or emt. Something that would give me the satisfaction of helping others. LikeLiked by 1 person Kinder and more considerate. ☺ LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Who would you like to be kinder and more considerate? The whole world itself? LikeLike Reply Better focus! LikeLiked by 2 people Reply What would you like to focus on? LikeLike Reply My goals. LikeLiked by 1 person I’d be 25 years old and know what I know now. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply And you’re going to ask me what I know now, yes? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Well, I don’t think it’s possible to sintesize what you know in a comment 🙂 I guess you want 25 y/o body and the experience you have now:) LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I feel like, nothing. I hope this is true and is the result of my struggles to accept whatever comes along the way. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply That’s a great approach 🙂 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Except that sometimes (when I lose my balance) I might not have enough willpower to push things because of too much acceptance. Like everything, this also needs balance. But I prefer being on the acceptance side still. LikeLiked by 2 people True! We’re only humans so it’s normal to lose the balance from time to time. LikeLiked by 1 person I’d definitely have better finances so I could get a car, get out of this town and do what I need to do to finalize crap but not have to be stuck here where I don’t feel I’m getting the support or help I need. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Finances are always a big blocker… LikeLiked by 1 person Reply It depends on how ambitious you are, what you’re willing to do, where you live, who you know and what’s available and how much experience you have to di the job. LikeLiked by 1 person No. It all depends if you’re free or not. Inside and outside. If you’re free, nothing can stop you conquer the world. Truly. LikeLiked by 2 people I am certainly trying! LikeLiked by 3 people I’d no longer have any chronic illnesses. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply That sounds tough. What chronic illnesses do you have? LikeLike Reply That’s a good question. I’ve been struggling to get diagnoses. What has been confirmed are autoimmune disorders: allergies, celiac disease, and repeating skin cancer. A recent x-ray showed degenerative disc disease, but the rheumatologist who ordered the test refused to follow up; I don’t know how much DDD has to do with my limited mobility and increasingly frequent nerve pain. Also, I’m not sure if migraines and recurring infections count as “illnesses”. Perhaps I should consider more carefully how to phrase my wish…. LikeLiked by 1 person Look for this book: Heal Your Body – by Louise Hay. Follow those lines, eat well, exercise and you’ll get well. Above all, turn to God, pray and believe that He can help. God bless you. LikeLiked by 1 person Thank your kind thoughts. I have seen that book. Food, exercise, and a widespread belief that God is more beneficial than healthcare providers have been problems for my health, but I hope to soon find social worker to help advocate for me while there remains a chance to recover. LikeLiked by 1 person It seems that because your autoimmune system is not working ad it’s fullest capacity (or at least, not in a good way) and because of this all types of difficulties appear… I’m very sorry you have to go through this, but I’m glad to see you’re tougher than that. LikeLiked by 1 person Reblogging to my sister site Timeless Wisdoms LikeLiked by 1 person Reply ❤ LikeLike Reply Pingback: Question of the Day – Timeless Wisdoms Financial stability and a career I’m passionate about. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply What are you passionate about that you’d like to make a career from? LikeLike Reply I’m most passionate about writing / editing. These days, I feel like it’s become too much about who you know rather than what you know in order to land a job you know you’re qualified for (at least, in the Bay Area / California it has). LikeLiked by 1 person Maybe you could try finding something online? LikeLike Planned financed and fitness better:) LikeLiked by 1 person Reply What would be the next step to get there? LikeLike Reply True question. Honestly I wrestled with this questions all throughout my childhood. Now 26, I wouldn’t change a thing. Everything that I have been through is preparing me for the better years to come. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply That’s awesome! How did those questions helped you? LikeLike Reply I’m sure that magic stick won’t work on others freewill so I would undo everything and wish that I had never been born. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply What makes you say you wish you had never been born? What are the difficulties that make your life so hard to live? LikeLike Reply I have no friends. I have no family other than my children and I expect they will leave me one day too. I spent most of my days completely alone. It’s a miserable feeling knowing that nobody cares about me. Every time it’s a special day I am reminded that I am not loved or wanted and don’t belong anywhere. I tried so hard to be good to the people I used to know but no one would stay in my life. I have never been able to keep friends, they would just stop talking to me or the nice ones would move away or die. It feels like I’m not meant to have friends. Life means nothing if you don’t have people to share it with. LikeLiked by 1 person There seem to be something essentially wrong with your beliefs that attracts this shit you’re talking about. I resonate to some extent, I used to feel completely alone. Until I was reminded that God exists and that He, who gave life to everything and everybody, must love me a lot. So I didn’t feel so alone any more. And my friends stepped out of the shadows. They were always there, you know. I just failed to notice them. Believe! LikeLiked by 2 people Thank you LikeLiked by 3 people In your opinion, why these things happen? LikeLike Well in the beginning I just thought that was how life worked. People came in or went out like a revolving door. It wasn’t till I was in my teens that it really started to affect my self-esteem then I realized that everyone else doesn’t have people ALWAYS leaving them. I had to accept that it just was what it was and I stopped trying to make friends because there was no point if they were simply going to leave. I didn’t want to invest my heart in anymore people. It wasn’t till a few years ago when I was well into my thirties that I read an article online that talked about people like me who were always being left behind and it had something to do with abandonment and all these people kept leaving because I was supposed to heal it. They were literally dropping off like flies when I was a child . I had no information or know how so I don’t understand how I was supposed to heal deep issues when the truth was if everyone just stopped leaving I wouldn’t have an issue. Some days I believe it happened because I had to heal and basically God send all these fuckers to abandon me so I would cry my heart out which really makes me mad when I put it like that, but it’s accurate. But then there are other days when I no longer believe in anything and I think people just hate me and I am powerless to stop them. LikeLiked by 1 person When you think about your interactions with your friends, how hard have you tried to keep them? I honestly don’t think it’s about you as a whole because I know shitty people with lots of friends and as far as I could tell about you, you’re not a shitty person so there is no reason for people to hate you just because it’s you. Maybe it’s because you’ve chosen the same type of friends again and again or maybe you’ve tried too much to keep them that it ended up being suffocating. Bottom line, I don’t think it’s because it’s something wrong with you or things like that. It’s either the wrong friends (too different than you), or the wrong strategy. I guess the compatibility level needs to be higher between you and potential friends. What do you think? LikeLiked by 1 person Everyone who was my friend came to me and seeked out my friendship. I was always too shy to speak to people and it was easier to not have friends over trying to make them. They were the ones who came to me and they were the ones who left. My friends always set the ground rules for the friendship. If they told me they couldn’t talk to me till next Friday then I believed them and I would wait till next Friday and expect a call. I might have called them once because they said we would talk but when they acted like they forgot or it didn’t matter to them like it did to me then I would pull back. When the first group of people left (that were forced to move away because a lot of good people were forced to move) then I would reach out and try to salvage the friendship one time but if it was clear they were blowing me off (ghosting wasn’t a term back then) then I would accept that they no longer wanted to be in my life and I would stop trying. The sad thing is I realized that I was the one keeping every relationship going. With my sister, my dad, everyone. I would call them once a week or text or email and ask how they were doing and take an interest in their lives but no one reached out to me. No one asked how I was doing and when God forced me to see the truth and how everyone was just using me and didn’t really value me or my friendship I crumbled. I cried so hard when I saw the truth because I was always a good friend, not too clingy or too needy. I respected others and even though I did everything the way they wanted people treated me like crap. It was part of my journey to see the truth and when I did anyone who was left I pulled back and decided if they want to be in my life then they will put forth some effort or I’m done. What happened was no one reached out or asked how I was doing because every relationship I had ever been in friendship or otherwise it was always one sided and I was always the one who went without. I don’t try to make friends anymore because I know it’s not worth the effort. I know I never get anything out of them and I’m tired of being used and taken for granted. I can’t attract good people in my life so I am better off without anyone. Sad but true. LikeLiked by 2 people I think this is less about you and more about them. They left because they were seeking for a better life. Maybe they are/were too selfish to think about friends… LikeLike Stop second guessing myself at times and just doing what I want unapologetically LikeLiked by 1 person Reply In your opinions, why do those things happen? LikeLike Reply Fear LikeLike Unmake some of the mistakes I’ve made in life. I’m sure everything would be 100% different now if I did. The only thing that’s not a mistake is my kids. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply It sounds like you had some tough times. How big of an influence do those things have in your life right now? LikeLike Reply I would want to put myself more out there, whether it be volunteering or clubs or jobs. Doing that is a lot harder than it looks! LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Yes, it is. Why are those things so hard for you? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Mostly due to my age and inexperience LikeLiked by 1 person The best way to get experience is to give it a go (I understand though, harder than it looks) Go for it and Good Luck LikeLiked by 3 people Thank you! I’m going to continue to try 🙂 LikeLiked by 3 people 20 lbs lighter and 5 years younger lol. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply I don’t think you can do something about your age, but maybe you can do something about the weight. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Definitely working on it! LikeLiked by 3 people Be more confident. Live life to the fullest without regret LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Maybe it won’t happen over night, but you can build your confidence 🙂 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply To be healthy, in all ways. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply That’s a tough one. Health is always a delicate subject. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Mature parents in a healthy loving relationship. It’s been hard to live with and after them. Also, to be born in a less struggling country. We’re talking magic, right? I guess God had other plans.😉 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply He surely has 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I’d like to be sought out for my talents and have the energy to do what I want during the day. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply The first part will come in time, but what can help you with increasing your energy level? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Exercise LikeLiked by 1 person My marriage LikeLiked by 1 person Reply What would you like to be different about your marriage? LikeLiked by 2 people Reply I’d like to avoid getting hurt, or have the ability and trust to address the hurt without turning to thoughts of divorce LikeLiked by 1 person Some of the people around me LikeLiked by 2 people Reply They would be different or they would be gone? LikeLike Reply Except for going back to a few years younger but keeping my actual experience 🙂 , I think I would just change my job. Not because I don’t like my actual one, but because I dream of having an independent schedule and manage my own time (basically, working from home 🙂 ) LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Who knows? Maybe you’ll find that 🙂 LikeLike Reply Ha ha I know this is a TRICK question … because the answer is NOTHING! anything else would not develop and define you .. and your LIFE LESSONS are allocated to you anyway so you would not be YOU if you had magic 🙂 Ahhh.. just sit back and enjoy the ride as it – all the good and all the bad LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Life will go by either way. 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Leave a Reply to temperate5kat Cancel reply Enter your comment here... Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email (required) (Address never made public) Name (required) Website You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Google account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Twitter account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Facebook account. ( Log Out / Change ) Cancel Connecting to %s Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email.