Question of the Day – No. 301 When was the last time you left your comfort zone and how did you do it? Share this:TwitterFacebookTumblrMoreLinkedInRedditPinterestPocketTelegramWhatsAppSkypeEmailLike this:Like Loading... 42 thoughts on “Question of the Day – No. 301” Add yours I’m currently practicing this at work. I’ve been in my current career for the last decade. I have an opinion about a lot of things that go on but I choose wisely which ones to address. It’s been very difficult. The parts where my voice shakes; the parts of me where the wounds come out; my emotional growth. Uhg HARD!! But I keep pushing myself. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply Yep, it’s hard. But everything is hard before it gets easy! 😀 LikeLike Reply I was challenged to write fiction based on a random picture – umm, Thursday? It wasn’t something that I would have set myself to, because I generally start with an idea, and fill it in. I”m happy with it. I may make a habit of this, if only for my own growth. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply Those writing exercises are quite helpful. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply It would be awesome if you can make a habit out of it! 😀 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I went on a date not too long ago when every other date I’ve had has ended me up in meh-to-crappy relationships. This one went really well though, so glass half full, maybe. LikeLiked by 4 people Reply Hope they’re a possible! LikeLiked by 3 people Reply Nice! Congratulations! 😀 LikeLike Reply Reblogging to my sister site Timeless Wisdoms LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Pingback: Question of the Day – Timeless Wisdoms I stayed up late enough to venture out into the night. I did it by forcing myself to nap between 7:00 and 11:00 p.m. No regrets . . . yet. LikeLiked by 4 people Reply Hopefully, no regrets at all 😀 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I wrote two stories and shared one chapter of one story with an unlikely person. The stories were fiction with a touch of erotic romance. Totally out of my comfort zone. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply That’s definitely hard to do. I’ve struggled with it in the past. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Nice! How was the feedback? LikeLike Reply When I decided to become a home caregiver. I always loved the medical field but it’s totally different when you’re giving one on one care to someone. I had to tell myself everyday, just be yourself, what you didn’t know today carry it with me to the next time I’m faced with it. You find strengths within yourself you didn’t know before. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Very nice self-talk! How helpful is it? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply It definitely helps especially because I’m known to beat myself alot. LikeLiked by 1 person Together with my husband, we quit our full time job, our house, our family and moved to more than 10,000km away in a new country, without knowing anyone and without having nothing except ourselves. A wonderful experience which we are still living it 💕😊 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply That is amazing! How did you find the courage to do it? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Without thinking to much and with the desire of some new adventures. And then we said that if really will be so bad we can always go back home, we always have a plan B. But we are very proud that we did it 💕 We are stronger than we thing 💕 LikeLiked by 1 person Writing my blog. I realized life is too short and basically said “Fuck it! What do I have to lose?!” LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Yep, that’s right! After a while, each decision tends to be followed by this “Fuck it! What do I have to lose?!” LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Purposely throwing myself into hanging out with two folks I completely did not know, one being a kid I met at a party two days prior & the other being his girl, doesn’t sound like I stepped out of my comfort zone but that was a definite. A while ago I’ve confirmed that my biggest social fears are awkward incidences, Its not such a big deal considering I’m not really an awkward person to begin with (hope that doesn’t sound cocky, oops) but pairing a slightly awkward person with a person slightly more awkward can conjure up those “incidences” quite easily, especially when the two specimens aren’t familiar with one another, needless to say, the day ended splendidly with little to none of those awkward moments I greatly fear, (yes I keep track) and I’m still friends with those two today, lets see how long this one last haha LikeLiked by 1 person Reply That is very nice! The more you face these social fears, the easier it will get to put yourself out more. I experienced that first hand. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply The day I were born… Mom decided it was time for me to leave the nest… 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply So you’ve lived an comfortable uncomfortable life 🙂 LikeLike Reply Instead of scrolling past a picture of something that makes me uncomfortable, I stayed with it trying to figure out why. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply What new insights have you acquired when you did that? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply none really, I need to get better at tolerating being uncomfortable LikeLiked by 1 person I last left my comfort zone when I moved states to be with my new man. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply That’s huge! Congratulations for finding toe courage of doing such a thing! 😀 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Thank you! LikeLiked by 1 person The last time (which was not the biggest one) was last September, when I decided to enroll in a II level Master, entirely run in a language I speak and understand, but not really at a professional level. First semester is gone and I am preparing for the second one which just started: I have to say I regret this decision almost every day 😀 because it’s really hard, also having a full time job and being surrounded by native speakers colleagues with way more spare time than me to dedicate to it. It’s full of papers, projects, assignments so I really hope I will make it through because I hate giving up and abandoning things at a half 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I guess that the fact that is hard will bring you a bigger satisfaction once you complete it 😀 LikeLike Reply Pingback: Question of the Day – No. 301 And Word of the Day Challenge — envision – Salted Caramel The last time I got out of my comfort zone is when I addressed being picked on my boss. I did it by talking to her, then her boss. In conclusion, I’m being lied on and the picking has continued. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply That’s tough and unfair. Have you started the job hunting? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I really want to but I don’t want to leave the group of children that I work with. Plus, I want to be there when it all crashes and burns. 😊 LikeLiked by 2 people I think that my first day bak in work after having time off due to my mental health was the biggest step out of my comfort zone. I had it all planned out in my head of what I was going to wear, where I would park my car etc which helped loads. My friend met me in the car park and we walked to my office together. I was a bag of nerves and was so anxious about it all. But, I knew I had to do it. My friend text me at intervals through the 4 hours I was back (phased return) just to check on how I was doing which helped me loads. I found that preparing for the day helped and taking it all one step at a time was the best method for me. xx LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Everything involves a process. If we miss some steps, the outcome gets screwed. I’m glad you’ve found what can help you 🙂 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Thanks! And thank you for asking the question for me to think about and answer xx LikeLiked by 2 people Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here... Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email (required) (Address never made public) Name (required) Website You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Google account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Twitter account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Facebook account. ( Log Out / Change ) Cancel Connecting to %s Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email.