I hold myself to a high standard and accountability and while I don’t hold others to that standard, I sometimes pass judgement in trying to help others improve or change directions. I don’t know why I’m this way. Someone once told me that when I see something that isn’t right or could be better that I’m like a puppy with a slipper.
When I commit a mistake or show some irrational behavior towards someone, I acknowledge to myself that I am at fault but I cannot gather the courage to go and face that person again and seek apologies…..
I find it easier by vocally admitting it to myself in private. Once you’ve admitted and accepted it, you can proceed to find solutions to to fix it. But everyone’s timeline for doing so is different.
great question…………and you are correct, I can’t admit it. 🙂
I hope in time you will do it because you probably need to 🙂
You are absolutely correct.
That I am nothing like the person the public see.
This is a great question…I’m not sure…probably that I hurt someone’s feelings knowing that I was doing it…😢
Well, the sooner you accept it, the better it would be for you…
Where do you think that difference comes from?
It is because of my job to be honest. It can be very restrictive in how you have to present yourself to the public.
I can be overly judgmental.
Why do you think you can be that way?
I hold myself to a high standard and accountability and while I don’t hold others to that standard, I sometimes pass judgement in trying to help others improve or change directions. I don’t know why I’m this way. Someone once told me that when I see something that isn’t right or could be better that I’m like a puppy with a slipper.
Not brave enough
What would you do if you were brave enough?
I would take more chances in life
When I commit a mistake or show some irrational behavior towards someone, I acknowledge to myself that I am at fault but I cannot gather the courage to go and face that person again and seek apologies…..
What is stopping you to do it? Is it shame?
I try to admit all my faults to myself for if I can’t own up to myself how can I improve upon it?
That is the healthiest approach which comes with the desire to evolve, I think.
Thankyou.
I’m not as neat and cool and my dog thinks I am!
Your dog is right and you underestimate yourself 😛
I find it easier by vocally admitting it to myself in private. Once you’ve admitted and accepted it, you can proceed to find solutions to to fix it. But everyone’s timeline for doing so is different.
The timeline is different, but the need is there 🙂
I have poor vision 😂 i hate it.
How can you improve it?
Can you tell me please? I am finding the same answer 😆
I’m not sure I can. You probably need to figure out by yourself 🙂
Yea prolly 😊