Question of the Day – No. 358 What conversation you need to have and with whom to diminish your pain? Share this:TwitterFacebookTumblrMoreLinkedInRedditPinterestPocketTelegramWhatsAppSkypeEmailLike this:Like Loading... 27 thoughts on “Question of the Day – No. 358” Add yours A conversation with myself LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Regarding what? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Why I think and act the way I do sometimes. Is it always in my best interest? In the interests of my family and loved ones? A serious, truthful examination through self-dialogue. LikeLiked by 1 person With God. He is the first person I come to for answers. As a child He was my imaginary friend . I came to God for everything. This has not changed. Question I would ask are. “ what is the purpose for this pain? Help me to understand? Then I would ask for immediate healing depending on His response. I have had a number of miraculous healings . He has never let me down LikeLiked by 2 people Reply That’s amazing! Since you started at an early age, you developed a great connection with Him! LikeLike Reply With my subconscious and tell it that it needs to stick to the plan. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Our subconscious likes to fuck up our lives… LikeLike Reply When I’m in pain a conversation with anyone is what I need to distract myself from what I’m feeling. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply What happens when you go back to the pain after the “distraction” is over? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply It may still be there or it may have finished. Depends on what caused it. LikeLiked by 1 person Anything but not about myself LikeLiked by 1 person Reply How come not about yourself? LikeLike Reply I guess because I still try to find my own way, so talking about myself only makes me feel bad about myself. Guess I have self esteem issues about my current life situation. Or probably mid-life crisis? LikeLiked by 1 person It’s probably the uncertainty of how your path should look like what makes you avoid the topic… LikeLiked by 1 person No conversation…just sleeping. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply And the pain is lower when you wake up? LikeLike Reply Sometimes. LikeLiked by 1 person Definitely need a conversation with myself. I think we all do these days, really. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I think so. About what that conversation needs to be? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Pushing myself to achieve certain goals and acknowledge my own self worth. I have a bad habit of comparing myself to others and tying my worth to their perceptions of me. That isn’t how it should be and yet… I am unable to change it so far. LikeLiked by 1 person It’s a process of continually asking the next question. Like children who keep asking Why? What is the belief behind this pain or suffering? What evidence supports it? What are all the thoughts it bring up? Are my emotional reactions based on misinterprataion or faulty conclusions? I think if you keep the so called authority of what’s paining you on the defense, it can eventually be seen through so its hold can’t last. If this doesn’t work, your only option may be to surrender it, to your God or a power you believe can take it from you. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply So it’s a process through which we try to diminish the pain by ourselves and if that doesn’t work, we can search for help from a higher power. LikeLike Reply Stay isolated. And have a realistic conversation with self. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply That’s a great way to strengthen your connection with self! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Someone who doesn’t know how badly I need him in my life LikeLiked by 1 person Reply What is stopping you to have that conversation? LikeLike Reply I don’t want to annoy them and let them thi k I’m too needy and clingy LikeLiked by 1 person Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here... Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email (required) (Address never made public) Name (required) Website You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Google account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Twitter account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Facebook account. ( Log Out / Change ) Cancel Connecting to %s Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email.