Question of the Day – No. 368 What makes you feel bad about yourself? Share this:TwitterFacebookTumblrMoreLinkedInRedditPinterestPocketTelegramWhatsAppSkypeEmailLike this:Like Loading... 47 thoughts on “Question of the Day – No. 368” Add yours The knowledge that I make a hack of everything I do, Makes me feel bad about me. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Why so? Hacks come in handy LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Not that sort of hack. I mean I always screw everything up. LikeLiked by 2 people I feel this way too, but then I try to remind myself that no one screws up everything, and I try to refocus on what I do that is right, because those things are there; we just have to find them. LikeLiked by 2 people What about that makes you feel bad about yourself? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply How can you not feel bad, when you somehow screw everything up? LikeLiked by 1 person That’s the best way to learn… LikeLiked by 1 person What makes you feel bad about yourslef is the things I did in the pass that I cant change because I was young and didnt have the right guide growing up as a CHILD LikeLiked by 1 person Reply But now you know better and you can be the right guide for others 🙂 LikeLike Reply Going to the grocery store, I’m not a great cook and do not aspire to be. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply make it fun, cook like they do on Chopped. Buy random baskets and see what you can throw together for your meal. Its great fun. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply I’ll take your word for it. I appreciate your faith and optimism, albeit misguided. 😉 LikeLiked by 1 person If you don’t aspire to be a great cook, how come is going to the grocery store making you feel bad about yourself? LikeLike Reply When I end up wallowing in self pity and overthinking to the point where I think I’m an awful person and unworthy LikeLiked by 3 people Reply What kind of thoughts bring you to that point? LikeLike Reply When people leave or ignore me, if I put myself first to replenish myself I’m treated that I’m being selfish. At 40 years of age is it not quite sad to realise that you don’t have friends, only know people. There are no phone calls or house visits, no days out with anybody other than family. It’s sucks that I put my children first to then realise nobody hung around to wait, so I must be an awful person if I’m alone. I’m not enough. So this then brings on the thoughts of being unworthy and self pity party for one. Then I get mad at myself for putting myself down. LikeLiked by 1 person When this happens, how often do you think it’s not a problem you have, but life is just the way it is… and people live their own lives. LikeLike I know most of the time it’s just life and we’re all busy and we can pick up where we left off. That’s the friends you know are genuine, but there are a few people I know that are just blanking me completely, esp online but hey, what can ye can do right? I should be used to it by now. But still I find myself questioning myself and thinking what the hell is wrong with me? LikeLiked by 1 person Thinking about myself. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply As a whole or only some parts of yourself? LikeLike Reply A little of both. Those parts, at times, feel like the whole. LikeLiked by 2 people When I analyze how people probably feel about me, and I make assumptions that it’s all negative. LikeLiked by 4 people Reply In your opinion, why are those assumptions all negative? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I’m just paranoid that I’m being criticized all the time. LikeLike If there is a promise I made to myself or someone else that I could not fulfill. LikeLiked by 4 people Reply Yes, that’s very bad feeling LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I hope that doesn’t happen too often… LikeLike Reply ..that I am not able to change my thinking- and behavioral patterns despite of all insights and self-knowledge. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply What would you like to change? LikeLike Reply The only thing that makes me feel bad is failure. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I hope it’s not so bad that it stops you… LikeLike Reply Mirrors. I don’t feel the way I look – but time doesn’t roll back. Going to the YMCA has helped – I’m dead in the middle with respect to age, weight and ability. Still – I wish I’d made some better choices. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Yes, time doesn’t roll back… What else can you do about that? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Well, I could have plastic surgery, if I had the money or wanted to spend it that way – that’s a big NO on both counts. So, I go do my thing at the pool. I accept that laugh lines are better than frown lines. I welcome the grey (but I still prefer it indigo!) LikeLiked by 1 person Eating something I know I shouldn’t LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Delicious food is always a big temptation… LikeLike Reply I love food so it makes me feel bad that I’m not a good cook. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Well, what stops you from becoming a good cook? LikeLike Reply I try to cook whenever I have the chance but it always ends up not tasting good even when I follow the exact recipe. Ha! LikeLiked by 1 person That I don’t think I’m pretty or smart enough sometimes. Or can’t cook. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I hope those are rare times… LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Not as rare as I’d like LikeLiked by 1 person Nothing. Though it never used to be that way for me, it is now. Life is too short to waste time being hard on ourselves. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Life is indeed too short for that… LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I m getting some negative thoughts 😶 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply What are those thoughts trying to tell you? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Thank goodness i am better now! 😃 Just about leaving some people lol LikeLiked by 1 person Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here... Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email (required) (Address never made public) Name (required) Website You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Google account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Twitter account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Facebook account. ( Log Out / Change ) Cancel Connecting to %s Notify me of new comments via email.