It’s very interesting you mention that it’s mostly related to self. So we tend to create and project hate towards others because there are some unsolved self related issues, right?
Blaming someone or something else for the choices we have made.
So a lack of responsibility and accountability and possibly transparency leads us not to let others see in ( check our error) but also if someone can’t see in then we cannot see out. Hence the blindness…..maybe.
Yikes! That is something easier approached from the side. I can tell you what it’s not but trying to describe it takes me there. It’s where I don’t want to go.
True hatred to me is a disdain so deep and profound that one is unable to see any amount of good in the other person, group, race etc. True hatred is ugly, inside and out.
A word that has to be removed from the language. I used to say it before many times. Now I am aware of my words and this word doesn’t exist. Instead of: “I hate when the weather is bad”. I would say: “I love warm and sunny weather”. The difference is not only in the words but I see this in my life. Bad words lowering the vibration.
No, disagreement is an acceptable action. To me hatred is also an action. How we handle disagreement for example, is where that blatant disregard can come in to play. Debate and disagreement is healthy, spewing hate onto someone who disagrees with you is not.
Misunderstanding, mostly of self.
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It’s very interesting you mention that it’s mostly related to self. So we tend to create and project hate towards others because there are some unsolved self related issues, right?
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Yessssssss! 👏🏾
The Psychology mindset is at its best, 😊
and this is why I enjoy your posts/comments
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Thank you very much! I really enjoy your comments too.
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Blind resentment.
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In your opinion, where that comes from?
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Blaming someone or something else for the choices we have made.
So a lack of responsibility and accountability and possibly transparency leads us not to let others see in ( check our error) but also if someone can’t see in then we cannot see out. Hence the blindness…..maybe.
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Destruction
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Destruction of?
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A feeling that needs a lot of unlimited negative energy.
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Too much waste of energy…
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A State of Mind when there is no choice to love
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Would you say that hate is the lack of love?
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There is a choise
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When you want so,someone dead
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Such a powerful feeling…
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Yikes! That is something easier approached from the side. I can tell you what it’s not but trying to describe it takes me there. It’s where I don’t want to go.
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Have you ever experienced it?
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Yes briefly
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Hate is absents of love
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I guess it is…
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The thought does leave me with an empty feeling. Absence of love.
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True hatred to me is a disdain so deep and profound that one is unable to see any amount of good in the other person, group, race etc. True hatred is ugly, inside and out.
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It is… I’m wondering what creates it.
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To wish something did not live
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A tough to handle wish…
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Hate separates me from life and my own inner strength to love. He first and foremost hits me and makes me sick. Hate is the separateness of life.
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Can hate be against life itself?
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Seeing what you dislike in yourself in others.
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And refusing to see that…
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A word that has to be removed from the language. I used to say it before many times. Now I am aware of my words and this word doesn’t exist. Instead of: “I hate when the weather is bad”. I would say: “I love warm and sunny weather”. The difference is not only in the words but I see this in my life. Bad words lowering the vibration.
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Awesome strategy! 😀
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It’s a feeling like all others 🙂
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Is it stronger than all others?
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No. It’s same as all others. If you think it’s stronger then it is..but surely it affects the brain and depends on brain..
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Blatant disregard of someone’s else’s feelings or emotions.
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So hate is a strong disagreement with someone? That’s interesting.
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No, disagreement is an acceptable action. To me hatred is also an action. How we handle disagreement for example, is where that blatant disregard can come in to play. Debate and disagreement is healthy, spewing hate onto someone who disagrees with you is not.
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Oh I see. I got it now. Thank you for explaining this! 🙂
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Absence of love
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You’re probably right. On this love/hate scale, where does indifference stand?
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Anger, frustration, bitterness and lack of peace. It’s a terrible place to be.
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It seems to be a mix of the most hurtful emotions.
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Sociopaths
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So only sociopaths can hate others?
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NO, EVERYONE CAN HATE THEY CAN CHOOSE TO HATE.
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SOCIOPATHS HAVE NO FEELINGS AT ALL
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No. They don’t feel anything
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