Mistakes in general which we make and realise. But when the time comes we yet again end up doing the same thing.
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I’m going to have to say “Us v. Them”. Sometimes it’s difficult to imagine being part of a tribe of so many billion, and it’s much more comfortable to say “Oh, those people aren’t like me, therefore they aren’t part of my grouping.” That’s selling ourselves, and the rest of humanity, short. There are so many beautiful and amazing diversities in our species, that’s part of what is so wondrous about who we are.
Having said that, there are times when compassion or empathy for someone else’s point of view is not going to serve humanity well. I don’t have to understand other’s religious or political views, but I should respect them. For me the cut off is when those practices start hurting people who cannot protect themselves, particularly children, the elderly and the ill.
I think that the common need to be right all the time is what stops people from accepting that there are so many points of view and that those people have the right to have those points of view.
Because there’s never a 100% guarantee that a human being will be able to be there for you or any of a lot of things. Always leave a little space for in case that trusted person might fail. Also to trust someone with the impossible.
It is not that I absolutely trust nobody, but a person is and can always be only human.
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I will have to say following the crowd. Copying other people. Like someone is into this kind of business, I want to follow that path without finding out if it suits my personality.
Our common mistakes as humans is disobedience. We sometimes fail to hearken to the right counsel, the truth . we let our will, feelings lead us into situations that wasn’t meant for us . we should all learn to listen to the spirit of God , draw close to God cause he’s the truth
Thank God for the holy spirit which is the spirit of truth which has come to teach us all things . we no longer have to be disobedient children anymore but we are led by the spirit to do good works
They don’t communicate very effectively and they don’t try hard enough to get out of their own headspace and try to see things from other people’s point of view.
We often fail to learn from each other, instead, we learn about each other and seal those false assumptions/perceptions which we use to treat each other
I think people expect too much from other people because they want them to act or behave according to their personal standards and forgetting that we are all different one way or the other…
For me it was always worrying about things I can”t control, just adds unnecessary anxiety to my life
Same here!
That’s always hurtful and it takes so much energy that could be used elsewhere…
Repeating the same mistake over and over again
What kind of mistakes?
Mistakes in general which we make and realise. But when the time comes we yet again end up doing the same thing.
I’m going to have to say “Us v. Them”. Sometimes it’s difficult to imagine being part of a tribe of so many billion, and it’s much more comfortable to say “Oh, those people aren’t like me, therefore they aren’t part of my grouping.” That’s selling ourselves, and the rest of humanity, short. There are so many beautiful and amazing diversities in our species, that’s part of what is so wondrous about who we are.
Having said that, there are times when compassion or empathy for someone else’s point of view is not going to serve humanity well. I don’t have to understand other’s religious or political views, but I should respect them. For me the cut off is when those practices start hurting people who cannot protect themselves, particularly children, the elderly and the ill.
I think that the common need to be right all the time is what stops people from accepting that there are so many points of view and that those people have the right to have those points of view.
They think they are perfect!
So very true!
They assume.
Oh yes! And furthermore, they believe in those assumptions very much!
Trust someone
Should we trust no one?
Only urself
Trust someone.
How come this is a mistake?
Because there’s never a 100% guarantee that a human being will be able to be there for you or any of a lot of things. Always leave a little space for in case that trusted person might fail. Also to trust someone with the impossible.
It is not that I absolutely trust nobody, but a person is and can always be only human.
I will have to say following the crowd. Copying other people. Like someone is into this kind of business, I want to follow that path without finding out if it suits my personality.
That is indeed a mistake because we end up living someone else’s life…
Assume
I see this around me every day and it’s so frustrating that people are not willing to try to understand better instead of assuming…
Yes exactly!
We forget to be kind to ourselves.
Oh yes! Ego and selfishness is a huge blocker here…
Lie
I agree.
Yeah… that’s why trust goes away so fast…
Yes that is for me the most important quality
Ignoring good advice.
I guess they probably don’t see it as good advice. Or they probably don’t want to change anything in their lives.
Not asking questions.
As someone who asks questions daily, I love your answer! <3
…and not to listen to the answer, of course.😉
Of course…
Our common mistakes as humans is disobedience. We sometimes fail to hearken to the right counsel, the truth . we let our will, feelings lead us into situations that wasn’t meant for us . we should all learn to listen to the spirit of God , draw close to God cause he’s the truth
I guess it’s easier to disobey than to follow…
Thank God for the holy spirit which is the spirit of truth which has come to teach us all things . we no longer have to be disobedient children anymore but we are led by the spirit to do good works
lose hope
Oh yes! And they do it so often…
Jump to conclusions.
Yes! And they do it without facts…
make rash decisions
Based on nothing but emotions…
Judge
Yes! Based on nothing but own opinions.
Believe.
Believe in something particular?
Taking things and people for granted
So true!!! And that’s why people suffer so much when they lose something or someone.
They don’t communicate very effectively and they don’t try hard enough to get out of their own headspace and try to see things from other people’s point of view.
Communication is such a huge problem because people don’t tend to listen. They tend to interpret parts of our listening.
Assume
And we do it so very much…
Underestimate their own value
Yes! And also their own potential.
We often fail to learn from each other, instead, we learn about each other and seal those false assumptions/perceptions which we use to treat each other
And we sometimes act like we like that treatment, which strengthens the “lie”.
Expecting too much from other people…
In your opinion, why do people do that?
I think people expect too much from other people because they want them to act or behave according to their personal standards and forgetting that we are all different one way or the other…