Question of the Day – No. 432 What helped you get over the most difficult moment of your life? Share this:TwitterFacebookTumblrMoreLinkedInRedditPinterestPocketTelegramWhatsAppSkypeEmailLike this:Like Loading... 59 thoughts on “Question of the Day – No. 432” Add yours Knowing that things would get better eventually!😊 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Nice! That’s the spirit! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Being me and following my heart… 🙂 LikeLiked by 3 people Reply That’s always helpful! LikeLike Reply Trust in God LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Me, too! LikeLiked by 2 people Reply ✌ LikeLike Awesome! LikeLike Reply Faith in knowing that while this may be a terrible time, I’ve been able to get thru every bad day of my life before this. That and a lot of prayer and trust that a Higher Power wouldn’t put me in any situation that I can’t get through. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Yes! Working a 12 step in getting intentional with my life has helped so much. Plus letting go of what I can’t change in the moment LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Yes, exactly! No challenge is stronger than us! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply It’s funny cause I just got possible downsizing news at work and now I don’t know what to do. LikeLiked by 1 person If that’s the case, I’m sure you’ll find a better job. LikeLike Being too damned stubborn to see how deeply i was in the weeds. Looking back, I’m shocked. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply And you still found a way to climb back up! You’re a very strong human being! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Thank you. Sometimes that’s hard to see from the inside. LikeLiked by 1 person The strength and support of my wife, to whom I owe my life after the death of my son. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply I’m very very sorry for your loss… how long ago was that? LikeLike Reply Being open and transparent with a solid support group combined with prayer and taking it one step at a time LikeLiked by 3 people Reply How big is your support group? LikeLike Reply Lots of prayer and patience. My mantra.”This too shall pass.” LikeLiked by 3 people Reply Yes, it shall 🙂 Always. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Thoughts of suicide ironically kept me alive. I would “cheer” myself by thinking that if things got really bad, I could always kill myself. Once I gave myself permission for an out, life became bearable because I had a plan. I was suicidal for 2 years even while I was on anti-depressants. Slowly though, medication and therapy and my growing up all helped and I didn’t need suicidal thoughts for comfort anymore 😊 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply That sounds very tough, but I’m glad you found the proper support that helped you get out of that dark situation. What helped you the most during that therapy? LikeLike Reply 1. The therapist had a beginning, middle and an END for our course (my greatest fear was turning into one of those people like Woody Allen who can’t get through a single conversation without saying, “my therapist said ….”) 2. There was simple homework everyday 3. There was evaluation of my homework and that helped me chart how my mind works and the progress I’m making – it was all extremely tangible 4. Right from day one, I was preparing and being prepared to un-need therapy in 6 months 5. I was more or less disciplined through the 6months 😊 LikeLiked by 1 person Still working on it. 😊 LikeLiked by 4 people Reply I’m sorry to hear that! How can we help? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Txx so much! 😊 it’s a good thing. I’m just working through things by taking one small step at a time. Meditation, prayer, mantras, psychology, writing, nature, focusing on health and positivity, getting enough rest… it all helps with the process. Just step by step. LikeLiked by 1 person It wasn’t so much “the most difficult moment of my life” as a general funk. Lots of stuff happened all at once that left me very angry and bitter at everyone, at the world, at God, you get the idea. Then I read “Lone Survivor” and watched the movie based off of it. That put everything in perspective for me. I wasn’t up on a mountain in the middle of nowhere, getting shot to pieces, watching my best friends in the world die in front of me. The stuff going on in my life was peanuts in comparison to that. And if Marcus Luttrell could come through that and keep a positive outlook on life, I had zero right to be whining about my own BS. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Even though it’s strange, we somehow find strength in other people’s difficulties. When we see how bad life is for others, we re-evaluate our own. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply 𝙸’𝚖 𝚌𝚞𝚛𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚕𝚢 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚠𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚖𝚊𝚢 𝚋𝚎 𝚖𝚢 𝚖𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚍𝚒𝚏𝚏𝚒𝚌𝚞𝚕𝚝 𝚝𝚒𝚖𝚎 𝚒𝚗 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚞𝚜 𝚏𝚊𝚛. 𝚃𝚘 𝚌𝚘𝚙𝚎, 𝙸 𝚊𝚖 𝚝𝚊𝚕𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚖𝚢 𝚑𝚞𝚜𝚋𝚊𝚗𝚍, 𝚏𝚘𝚌𝚞𝚜𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚘𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚐𝚘𝚘𝚍, 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚍𝚘𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜 𝙸 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎. 𝙼𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚛𝚎𝚌𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚕𝚢 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚖𝚎𝚊𝚗𝚜 𝚠𝚊𝚝𝚌𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚒𝚛𝚎 “𝚁𝚘𝚌𝚔𝚢” 𝚜𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚜. 𝙸𝚝 𝚊𝚕𝚠𝚊𝚢𝚜 𝚖𝚊𝚔𝚎𝚜 𝚖𝚎 𝚜𝚖𝚒𝚕𝚎. 𝙺𝚎𝚎𝚙 𝚘𝚗 𝚔𝚎𝚎𝚙𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚘𝚗, 𝚏𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚍𝚜. 🕊 LikeLiked by 3 people Reply I’m very sorry to hear you’re going through difficulties. What happened? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply 𝚃𝚑𝚊𝚗𝚔𝚜 𝚜𝚘 𝚖𝚞𝚌𝚑. 𝙹𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝚜𝚘𝚖𝚎 𝚏𝚊𝚖𝚒𝚕𝚢 𝚜𝚝𝚞𝚏𝚏. LikeLiked by 1 person Reblogging this to my readers at sister site Timeless Wisdoms LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Awesome! Thank you! LikeLike Reply 😊 LikeLiked by 1 person Pingback: Question of the Day – Timeless Wisdoms Family and starting my life over in a completely different atmosphere. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply How come you changed the atmosphere? How hard was it to do it? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I had change my atmosphere because I had no choice. I would probably be dead if I had stayed. It was very hard to do but it’s getting easier. LikeLiked by 1 person Jesus LikeLiked by 1 person Reply The best! LikeLike Reply Self talk LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Only that? You’re strong! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Thanks! So you are 😃 LikeLike my friends and my blog 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Writing and affection… what more can someone want 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply My family has been the pillar of support in my life. Music has always been my secret helper. And if you know BTS; they’re songs always consoled, inspired and motivated me. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Music keeps me up too. Especially Eminem. 🙂 LikeLiked by 2 people Reply Praying LikeLiked by 1 person Reply The best! LikeLike Reply Finally accepting: Al final estás solo y no hay nadie que venga a salvarte LikeLiked by 1 person Reply How long did it took until you accepted it? LikeLike Reply Breathing LikeLiked by 1 person Reply That seems to do the trick every time. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply My kids. I had no choice but to go on for them. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply It seems that love can get us through anything… LikeLike Reply Ikr eminem and raps do help 😄 LikeLike Reply Most definitely music. LikeLike Reply Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here... Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email (required) (Address never made public) Name (required) Website You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Google account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Twitter account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Facebook account. ( Log Out / Change ) Cancel Connecting to %s Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email.