Question of the Day – No. 457 How do you handle moments of insecurity? Provided by Scherezade Ozwulo from Scherezade’s Labyrinth Share this:TwitterFacebookTumblrMoreLinkedInRedditPinterestPocketTelegramWhatsAppSkypeEmailLike this:Like Loading... 11 thoughts on “Question of the Day – No. 457” Add yours I let those moments play over and over in my head in a never ending loop. Then when I’m exhausted and I have had enough, I reason with myself and return to feeling more confident and at peace. Over the years the insecurities have diminished and I agonize less; probably has something to do with age and caring less about what others think. LikeLiked by 7 people Reply Dang this was a good answer. Lol This is basically what I do too LikeLiked by 3 people Reply This… Literally… The loop NEVER ENDS… In one now… It hurts ☹️ LikeLiked by 2 people Reply wear something i feel good in! x LikeLiked by 3 people Reply Moments? I’d say I have moments of confidence amid days of insecurity. Fake flamenco means persevering despite discomfort. I show up, I keep writing, and I continue to believe I will be published. -Rebecca LikeLiked by 5 people Reply I’m insecure most of the time unfortunately. I’ve noticed that I become stand offish and slightly defensive when approached, which is probably not the right way to handle these types of situations. LikeLiked by 3 people Reply Same here…or recede so far into the background you literally become invisible LikeLiked by 2 people Reply I do the same but try to be aware of it and just smile. It’s my only defense for everything. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I think about the options and assign each to sides of a mental coin, then I flip the coin and as I imagine it in the air, I know exactly what my decision is — the one I want the coin to yield. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I remind myself I am not the person I was. I’m stronger, I have more emotional support, I’m healthier, the situation may be uncomfortable, but I’ve survived such things. I will also practice some meditative breathing to calm down. LikeLike Reply Know the person I want to be. If this will help me get there then it’s worth the insecurity. If it won’t then I don’t find much value in that experience. LikeLike Reply Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here... Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email (required) (Address never made public) Name (required) Website You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Google account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Twitter account. ( Log Out / Change ) You are commenting using your Facebook account. ( Log Out / Change ) Cancel Connecting to %s Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email.