I don’t like it when they ask about money. How much did you spend on that car or ring etc., Or How much did you get from your bonus or settlement etc. 😊 Those ‘none of your business’ questions.
Well, maybe your advise didn`t convince the other person in this single case.
In any case, it is a compliment to be asked for advise.
I am happy to share my view if it helps the decision making process and I do not expect that other follow my advise.
Actually, I am used to ask many people for their opinions to be sure that I get a grasp of the big picture and look at the topic from different angles.
I dont mind giving advice. My example centers around a certain kind of people who always ask for it but they love to go the opposite of whatever anyone tells them. I have family like this.
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Okay, I understand. So, what do you think why do they ask you?
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Because they like to waste my time, is what I’ve figured out over the years. My family are very negative and they find negativity in every aspect of their lives-mostly self inflicted of these choices they make.
Then I’m made to be the bad guy or my advice is shooed off.
So many times of that happening, I’ve learned to not give in. “I don’t know what tell you.” Is my go to response. They end up saying what steadfastly what they were going to do anyway, if I said anything or not
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In a group setting I always disliked the whole, Please share an interesting fact about yourself. That’s too much pressure for me. I’m not that interesting.
Questions like:
When are you getting married? (followed by: when will you have babies?)
And those related to money: You’re travelling too much, can you really afford that?
Usually those questions are followed by unwanted advice and comparisons to other people (who are about my age). I know my relatives just wanted the best for me, but the repetitiveness can be really tiresome.
Tell me a few things about yourself. Duh. You’ll find out when we start talking, meeting people and interviewing them at first site is not the best approach
Two types here; ones too personal to be asked by the person doing so (ie inappropriate), and leading or argumentative ones.
Not sure, why anyone would “dislike” questions. Anyone may strike any question while it remains a choice whether to answer or not.
When the answer is obvious … actually I LOVE questions like that so I can irritate the asker by saying some random shit in reply 😬😂
Those that sort of accuse you of committing something you never intended to
Anything that has to do with my past because I can’t be completely honest about it, in fear of being judged.
When someone gets too personal I get cranky.
Questions that are too forward from people I dont know well enough
I’m not phased about questions… Anyone can ask me anything and I’ll either answer honestly or or with wit. So that depends on the question asked.
Ones you know the answer to. Ones we already talked about. Clarification is diff than repetition
I don’t like it when they ask about money. How much did you spend on that car or ring etc., Or How much did you get from your bonus or settlement etc. 😊 Those ‘none of your business’ questions.
I hate if the questions are too personal and open up the old wounds
Are you okay?
Especially when it’s obvious I’m not.
I guess, this question shall serve as ice breaker only.
In view, it is ok if the conversation or interaction continues.
Rude questions….questions implying you’re doing or being some way you’re not.
Personal questions
close ended questions…One doesn’t have the liberty to answer according to his/her own point of view.
Don’t ask me a question, usually for my advice, if you just gonna do the opposite anyway. You made up your mind long time ago.
Well, maybe your advise didn`t convince the other person in this single case.
In any case, it is a compliment to be asked for advise.
I am happy to share my view if it helps the decision making process and I do not expect that other follow my advise.
Actually, I am used to ask many people for their opinions to be sure that I get a grasp of the big picture and look at the topic from different angles.
I dont mind giving advice. My example centers around a certain kind of people who always ask for it but they love to go the opposite of whatever anyone tells them. I have family like this.
Okay, I understand. So, what do you think why do they ask you?
Because they like to waste my time, is what I’ve figured out over the years. My family are very negative and they find negativity in every aspect of their lives-mostly self inflicted of these choices they make.
Then I’m made to be the bad guy or my advice is shooed off.
So many times of that happening, I’ve learned to not give in. “I don’t know what tell you.” Is my go to response. They end up saying what steadfastly what they were going to do anyway, if I said anything or not
In a group setting I always disliked the whole, Please share an interesting fact about yourself. That’s too much pressure for me. I’m not that interesting.
Invasive questions regarding disabilities
I guess personal question from people I don’t know well.
Questions like:
When are you getting married? (followed by: when will you have babies?)
And those related to money: You’re travelling too much, can you really afford that?
Usually those questions are followed by unwanted advice and comparisons to other people (who are about my age). I know my relatives just wanted the best for me, but the repetitiveness can be really tiresome.
Those which I have no answer
Tell me a few things about yourself. Duh. You’ll find out when we start talking, meeting people and interviewing them at first site is not the best approach