How was your week? Hopefully, you had a peaceful week!
I have been thinking about this lately (well, I actually think a lot about this always, but more so recently): Why are the people in our lives in our lives (friends or romantic interests)? Why do we attract them? Or how do they end up in our lives?
I am a huge advocate of the idea that our subconscious rules most parts of our lives. So, I think some people end up in our lives because our subconscious just wants them. It could be because the person is somehow familiar to our subconscious, so it wants the familiar. Or it could be the opposite: the subconscious wants to break a pattern so it attracts the exact opposite. If the latter, that person embodies what we do not have in ourselves but desire to have. This type of attraction is about learning.
Another reason, maybe related to the subconscious again, is that our energies fit, however we define energy. Some people just clicks with us because we are on the same level and type of energy. With these people, we end up being able to talk about anything and get intellectual and emotional satisfaction. This attraction is about sharing.
These two are the main reasons I could think of about why we attract people to our lives. Can you think of other reasons? Why do you think you have the people you have in your life now? Let’s talk about it.