By Ellen Jayne When was the last time you did something by yourself? Truly by yourself, and for yourself?
Ignite Your Independence
SnapDragon Speaks: On Starting Over.
Slice it Up, 2019. Original Photo by SnapDragon X. All rights reserved. If I could start all over again, I'd only focus on my body being strong. The hell with the numbers. If I could start all over again, I'd go into meetings with confidence. I have a right to be here. If I could... Continue Reading →
I’ve Studied Abroad 3 Times & I’ve Learned Nothing
Provided by ellieejay My first international class in Guatemala, followed by a semester in London, then a semester in Granada… and what do I have to say for myself? I’ve learned nothing. Contrary to popular belief and folktales told by previous students who have studied internationally, living abroad for 5 months does not make you... Continue Reading →
Treat Yourself like You Matter!
This is a topic vastly approached by our today’s society and whilst all of what it is saying is true, there is a slight different approach to that and I must say, it’s less selfish. Ok, we all know the phrases “we only have one life” and “we should put ourselves first so we... Continue Reading →
Is Writing Self-Improving?
We know that practice makes everything better, but does that apply to writing as well? I mean, how does writing improve? Based on what? If I write the same crap over and over again that makes me better? Probably not. It will probably be easier to find the same words and phrases, but if I... Continue Reading →
What does Blogging really mean?
This is a veeeery tricky and important question for me. I don’t even know if I should ask it. So what is blogging? A blog is a site, but what does this verb refer to? Is it about writing? Is it about reading? Is it about both and many more? Is the purpose of it... Continue Reading →
The Impulse to Write
Does it ever happened to you to feel an impulse to write, even though the moments are not so appropriate? And even stranger, when you want to write, the words won’t come? It very often happens to me to just wander around and all of a sudden BOOM! Writing idea! And then I pounder on... Continue Reading →
Dealing with writer’s block…
Terry Pratchett said that there is no such thing as writer’s block. If so, how should we define the moments when it seems that our bucket of ideas is empty? How do we put words where it seems to be nothing but darkness? And moreover, how we decide which words to use when no words... Continue Reading →
How Traveling Could Make You A Better Person
And How It Can’t Traveling Definition — Google Search to go from one place to another, as by car, train, plane, or ship; take a trip; journey: to travel for pleasure.to move or go from one place or point to another.to proceed or advance in any way. (As found on dictionary.com) I’m talking about the first definition. Where you... Continue Reading →
5 Reasons Why You Should Write Daily
Drawing by Adrian Serghie How often do you write? If it’s not daily, you might need to reconsider this. I’m not necessarily talking about blogging, but more about writing in general. Maybe you think you don’t have enough time for it or maybe you think it’s not helpful and it’s just a waste of time,... Continue Reading →
Is Writing Your Passion? Really?
Tell The Truth To Yourself, Not To Me (The image tells us that he’s a developer. But let’s assume he’s a writer.) I’m going to ask you this one question: Is writing authentically your passion? Understanding passion Long ago, I was in doubt. Is writing actually my dream? Is it what I genuinely love and relish... Continue Reading →
I’m A Writer, Not A Notification Checker
But I Forget That… Writing is a part of the writing job. Checking notifications isn’t. (Or is it?) It could be. ‘Cause it feels that way. When I check notifications and emails, it feels as if I’m doing some important work. Every time turn this device on and log in to Medium, my eyes get fixed... Continue Reading →
The Writing Therapy
This is the form of therapy that we benefit the most, as bloggers. If we think about it, that’s why the writers write. They want to express what’s inside them and this eases their inner universe. The ideas or the pain get out and once the separation happened, the writers feel relieved. A... Continue Reading →
A Few Commitments To Myself
And I Got Committed For At Least 5 Minutes Today, I actually saw myself standing on a podium, lecturing people. About what? I don’t know. It was a daydream, to be honest. But there is some stuff that I took seriously. I Want To Give The World The Best Of Me Nothing less than that. That’s why... Continue Reading →
The Most Important Thing(s) To Understand About Your Relationship
One of my most interested fields in psychology is that of dating and understanding how to find and interact with our romantic partner. There is no doubt that if you are in a relationship or married, that you haven't been through some sort of emotional or mental rollercoaster with your partner. That's just part of... Continue Reading →
Writer’s Block Is A Myth
And I’m Not Going To Run Out Of Ideas When I started writing (for real), the only thing that used to terrify me was the writer’s block. But anyways, I started. I had to. Whenever I used to fear writer’s block, I would console myself by telling, “We have a lot of mistakes on our side.... Continue Reading →
The Story Without A Title
“man standing on sand while spreading arms beside calm body of water” by Kal Loftus on Unsplash Oh wait, you already saw it… I don’t know what I’m going to write today! I just wished to write something different. I was bored of do-this-do-that stuff.Even my homepage is full of stories I don’t want to read. Right... Continue Reading →
Start Your Engines…Now
But First, Find Your Keys The only thing that we’re lacking, is a hard kick on our butts. It gets us started. No matter how hard the task is, the strength to handle it comes from facing it on-the-spot. But how is a face-off possible when we aren’t even showing our faces to the problem... Continue Reading →
That’s you! Before I could start to write, I and my mother had a little bit of argument. When it ended, I felt a bit discontented and not ready to write. I knew what was missing. I went outside and apologized to her for my mistake. (Please don’t ask what! 🤐) We had a healthy... Continue Reading →
I Am Willing To Trust Myself
Finally Today I was going through the Medium profiles and articles by famous writers. And I could see how their articles had spread like wildfire. They had great content that brought them immense attention and acknowledgment overnight. And now they are telling people how to increase their Medium viewership and stuff. Even I want that... Continue Reading →
